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Q. ok i no it sound stupid bu i really do love my boyfriend but since he's a Taurus like my ex i'm afraid it may go down in flames like me and my ex did. There's a slight difference though My ex is Older then me by 8 Months my boyfriend is younger then me by a year and 3 months My B-day is 11/10/1993, my exes is 4/28/1993 and my Boyfriend of right now is 5/7/1994 so there's a slight difference. i no all the web sites say Taurus and Scorpio really don't mix but will me and my sweetheart last i really love him and he loves me i love my ex to but i'm just curious in weather we will last for a while i'm scared to loose him i love him dearly i don't want to repeat my last relationship Help please whats your suggestions
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Taurus and Scorpio Relationship.
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Taurus and Scorpio are opposite signs of the zodiac, however, as is often the case with signs that are opposite, they find each other strangely magnetic and it's likely there's a strong sexual attraction.
When the highly sensual Taurus combines with the extremely passionate Scorpio the bedroom can become a very romantic place.
Both signs are ambitious and determined in their work outlook and relationships and these very qualities may lead to loggerheads and inflexibility between them.
Scorpio Lovers
A Scorpio is an intense, sexually insatiable lover whose desire for sexual exploration can often outstrip that of their partner.
They have a strong loyalty streak and their passion can become somewhat overwhelming at times.
They hate routine and make love with a remarkable intensity, are not above using sex to manipulate their partner, and can be domineering over every move in the bedroom.
Jealousy is a major feature in this sign often resulting in Scorpio becoming suspicious of their partner to the point of suffocating them.
Scorpioâs generally have high standards although they tend to apply them to matters of particular interest to them. They can present a calm outlook on the surface when in fact raging within.
They love and live their own way and are far from easily influenced to any change their opinion or outlook.
There is a powerful magnetic quality inherent in the Scorpio - hypnotic in the male and femme fatale in the female, so that the intensity of their love attracts others toward them.
The Scorpio sign rules the genitals, and while this an erogenous body area for everyone, in case of Scorpio, it is the principal area of sexual focus. Gently stroking in this area will arouse and let loose the incredible passion of Scorpio.
Taurus Lovers.
Taurus is earthy, lusty, and sensual with a huge sexual appetite. They are loyal lovers who donât fool around and expect the same faithfulness from others.
They seek stability and security and will make a serious commitment to their love life. Their heart lies with their home where a stable environment is essential because they are resistant to change preferring a steady, lazy ongoing secure environment.
They are faithful and home loving as spouses, make kind parents, and are never too demanding upon either their spouses or children.
Artistic and creative they are great admirers and creators of beauty and tend to take keen interest in crafts, (pottery, sculpture, jewellery etc) and gardening.
They love to eat and live well, so that candlelight dinners, good wine and sensual foods followed by a trip of into a luxurious bedroom of sumptuous décor will certainly stimulate the Taurean sexual desires.
The throat and neck are the Taurus erogenous zones therefore some steady caresses of hand and physical stimulation plus light kissing and nibbling along the throat and neck should place the Taurus at their partnerâs mercy
Taurus and Scorpio Relationship.
How To Be Irresistible
(For Men & Women)
Discover The Powerful Step-By-Step Secrets Of How To Meet, Attract And Create A Lasting And Fulfilling Relationship With The Kind Of Man/Woman You've Always Wanted - Even If You're Shy Or Doubt You're Good Looking
Taurus and Scorpio are opposite signs of the zodiac, however, as is often the case with signs that are opposite, they find each other strangely magnetic and it's likely there's a strong sexual attraction.
When the highly sensual Taurus combines with the extremely passionate Scorpio the bedroom can become a very romantic place.
Both signs are ambitious and determined in their work outlook and relationships and these very qualities may lead to loggerheads and inflexibility between them.
Scorpio Lovers
A Scorpio is an intense, sexually insatiable lover whose desire for sexual exploration can often outstrip that of their partner.
They have a strong loyalty streak and their passion can become somewhat overwhelming at times.
They hate routine and make love with a remarkable intensity, are not above using sex to manipulate their partner, and can be domineering over every move in the bedroom.
Jealousy is a major feature in this sign often resulting in Scorpio becoming suspicious of their partner to the point of suffocating them.
Scorpioâs generally have high standards although they tend to apply them to matters of particular interest to them. They can present a calm outlook on the surface when in fact raging within.
They love and live their own way and are far from easily influenced to any change their opinion or outlook.
There is a powerful magnetic quality inherent in the Scorpio - hypnotic in the male and femme fatale in the female, so that the intensity of their love attracts others toward them.
The Scorpio sign rules the genitals, and while this an erogenous body area for everyone, in case of Scorpio, it is the principal area of sexual focus. Gently stroking in this area will arouse and let loose the incredible passion of Scorpio.
Taurus Lovers.
Taurus is earthy, lusty, and sensual with a huge sexual appetite. They are loyal lovers who donât fool around and expect the same faithfulness from others.
They seek stability and security and will make a serious commitment to their love life. Their heart lies with their home where a stable environment is essential because they are resistant to change preferring a steady, lazy ongoing secure environment.
They are faithful and home loving as spouses, make kind parents, and are never too demanding upon either their spouses or children.
Artistic and creative they are great admirers and creators of beauty and tend to take keen interest in crafts, (pottery, sculpture, jewellery etc) and gardening.
They love to eat and live well, so that candlelight dinners, good wine and sensual foods followed by a trip of into a luxurious bedroom of sumptuous décor will certainly stimulate the Taurean sexual desires.
The throat and neck are the Taurus erogenous zones therefore some steady caresses of hand and physical stimulation plus light kissing and nibbling along the throat and neck should place the Taurus at their partnerâs mercy
Ladies: In general, does your husband like helping out with the home improvement projects around the house?
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We bought a new home almost two years ago, and it's just as bare as it was the day we bought it. We have furniture for all of the rooms, but there are other things that I have been wanting to do such as: hang ceiling fans, install a garage door opener, hang curtains and valances, get our windows measured for wood blinds, install a screen door and a new front door, etc. The problem is I don't know how to do any of those things. My husband doesn't really know how either, but he's not interested in learning. I know how to use a power drill and hang pictures and other "no brainer" things, but I have a husband here, who's tall and healthy, and he won't even try.
I suggested we do things together. Since neither of us know what to do, I thought it would be a good idea for both of us to try and figure it out. On the rare occasion that I can get him to do something he wants to take control of it. After weeks of basically begging him he finally hung the curtain rods, but believe me when I say he didn't want to do it. A year or so after we were married I had to "convince" him to purchase a new living room set. He finally agreed. Earlier this year I was finally able to convince him that we needed a bedroom set. He finally agreed. I purchased a used dining table and china cabinet off Craigslist for a good price earlier this year, so that's the only reason he was in agreeance to that.
I understand he's a man and he's probably not interested in home decor like I am. That's my passion. But when I want to go find a picture, accessories for the house, furniture, etc. I have to do it alone. When I went to look for curtains I went by myself. There are times when I ask him to drive me somewhere to look at something for the house, and he refuses to go (because he doesn't like the fact that I walk around the store twice to make sure I'm not missing a deal). When he does agree to take me, which is rare because I try not to ask, he has an attitude. I can't even ask him to help me move anything around the house.
Yesterday, I asked him to help me move the china cabinet down a little bit. It's two pieces and I'm short and didn't want to turn the whole thing over. He was in the middle of playing a video game when I asked him. I didn't want to ask him to begin with but I had no choice. He acted like I was killing him. He told me I should have asked him when his friends were over (on New Year's Eve ... as if I was thinking about it then) so he could have help. There's only a few glasses in the china cabinet and we moved those, and I was willing to help him ... I just didn't want to move it by myself.
I just don't understand this. This is his house too, but it's almost like I have to beg him to do anything around here. I guess he figures because he's not interested in home decor and how things look, and since it's my thing, he shouldn't have to help. When I told him I was going to hire my cousin's handyman to help us out, he said, "I didn't think we had money for that" in a sarcastic tone. I've got to do something. I bought shelving for the pantry several months ago. After trying to get it up I asked him. He started talking about what I'd have to have to hang it, etc. ... when all the stuff we need is already at home. He just makes excuse after excuse when I ask him to do something of that nature ... and he always has something negative to say like, "That hanger isn't strong enough to hold that mirror" or "This isn't the right type of screw" when in reality it works just fine.
A little history - he is an only child and his mother has never been into decorating. His father is not a home improvements type of guy either. In their home it's just whatever ... as long as they can use it they don't care how it looks. That's fine with me and I can respect that. That's their home and I don't look down on them because they're not into decorating, but I am ...
I am sharp when it comes to computers and business stuff, but hardware, tools, and measurements just go right over my head. I'm horrible when it comes to math. But if I could learn how to do these things I would. I'm tired of begging him and as long as I sit and wait on him to become interested in what I'm doing (he'll never be that), I'll be sitting in the same place.
I have several relatives who know how to do flooring, ceiling fans, etc. and I asked one to come help me the other day. The first thing he said is, "Okay ... but what about your husband?" I'm so embarassed because my family will ask if we've got this up and that up, and I have to say no ... and they're all looking like "Doesn't she have a husband?"
What should I do?
Edit: I was able to find some people to paint the living room, kitchen, and master bedroom ... after asking him to help me paint. I've never painted before, but I was willing to try because it couldn't be THAT hard.
Edit 2: Yesterday, I decided to return the curtains I'd bought for my living and dining room. The panels were easy to hang, but I bought a scarf and couldn't get it to act right. Because I'm so short, and because the scarf is so long ... you really need two people to work with it. When I took it back to the store that's what the lady said ... exactly what she said ... it takes to people ... I just laughed. I don't have a second person.
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Honestly, it sounds like he grew up a little spoiled and never had to do things around the house (take that one up with his parents! lol) You're going to have to find a gentle, quiet way to instill a since of pride about his home in him. My husband was kind of the same when he was younger and I blamed it on the fact that we grew up differently. He got paid to mow the lawn or do things, I was just expected to do it. He was looking for a reward and my reward has always been the finished product. I think at some point he realized that I wasn't going to stop until things were done and now he's more into it.
I also learned to do things on my own and there was a little guilt when I was ripping a room apart to paint it while he was on the couch.....
That being said, there are still things that he wont do (or I wont allow him to do) painting is one of them (he's awful at it). I would never ask him to put curtains up (maybe the rod) and he would honestly rather take a bullet in the head than go shopping for "house stuff" with me.
Pick your battles. If he doesn't want to be part of the process (and many men don't) of picking out things for the house, do it yourself. When you need his help, tell him. If he claims he doesn't know how to do something (or you need help too) the internet is a great resource.
My husband is pretty helpful now and we talk about projects before we take them on. Sometimes, if he needs motivation, I'll mention that I'm getting an estimate on getting something done. He's either too cheap or prideful because the thought of another man in the house doing something that he COULD do.....kills him...lol
Good luck :)
Honestly, it sounds like he grew up a little spoiled and never had to do things around the house (take that one up with his parents! lol) You're going to have to find a gentle, quiet way to instill a since of pride about his home in him. My husband was kind of the same when he was younger and I blamed it on the fact that we grew up differently. He got paid to mow the lawn or do things, I was just expected to do it. He was looking for a reward and my reward has always been the finished product. I think at some point he realized that I wasn't going to stop until things were done and now he's more into it.
I also learned to do things on my own and there was a little guilt when I was ripping a room apart to paint it while he was on the couch.....
That being said, there are still things that he wont do (or I wont allow him to do) painting is one of them (he's awful at it). I would never ask him to put curtains up (maybe the rod) and he would honestly rather take a bullet in the head than go shopping for "house stuff" with me.
Pick your battles. If he doesn't want to be part of the process (and many men don't) of picking out things for the house, do it yourself. When you need his help, tell him. If he claims he doesn't know how to do something (or you need help too) the internet is a great resource.
My husband is pretty helpful now and we talk about projects before we take them on. Sometimes, if he needs motivation, I'll mention that I'm getting an estimate on getting something done. He's either too cheap or prideful because the thought of another man in the house doing something that he COULD do.....kills him...lol
Good luck :)
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