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Jane
I know it sounds strange, or perhaps immoral, but I've always wanted to do a rape fantasy.
But I'm afraid my boyfriend will think I'm a freak for wanting to do such a fantasy.
So how exactly do I bring up such a topic to him?
This is honestly a serious questions so no immature answers please!
Thank you so much!
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Answer
Somehow, especially among youths, sexual adventurousness has been tarred with the other meaning of being undesirably abnormal. Ditto with genitalia and trash. It's a bit sickening just how sex-negative kids are these days.
A female taking the receptive or submissive role in rough or forced sex is a pretty mainstream fantasy, and he might be more receptive to it than you think. Take the standard precautions: set up a safe word, talk much about it before and after, agree that what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom.
Somehow, especially among youths, sexual adventurousness has been tarred with the other meaning of being undesirably abnormal. Ditto with genitalia and trash. It's a bit sickening just how sex-negative kids are these days.
A female taking the receptive or submissive role in rough or forced sex is a pretty mainstream fantasy, and he might be more receptive to it than you think. Take the standard precautions: set up a safe word, talk much about it before and after, agree that what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom.
Going to college with the right dorm materials?
Chaotic Ca
I'm not going to college for a couple years but I want to know what kind of things people usually bring when they start their first year.
I want to be really ready when the time comes.
It may be a little rushy to some people, but my mom is really picky.
She'll say a lot of things are unnecessary, so the more time I have to raise money to buy things myself, the better.
Answer
You will typically have to share a room the first year. I shared a room throughout my 4 years of college. It's not that bad, as you get to make decent friends this way and you learn how to cope with other people.
Having said the above, the average dorm room is probably as big as an average master bedroom in most homes. So, you only get to decorate about 50% of that...and the college dorms typically come with some standard furnishings, such as a bed, study desk, dresser and closet space.
I would recommend the following items:
pens
pencils
spiral notebooks (one for each subject)
hilighter markers (several colors)
handheld calculators (plural)
flashlights (plural)
desk lamp
alarm clock
clock radio (set two alarms on exam days)
toiletries
mattress cover (platic thing)
mattress pad
single bed clothes (sheets, blankets)
bed comforter for cold nights
small space heater
fan
packpack
briefcase
area rug
small bedside table
table lamp
some cool posters (colleges frown on you nailing pics to the wall, so posters can add a personal touch to your room and be applied with double-sided adhesive tape)
dictionary (small)
thesaurus
scissors
ruler
different tapes and adhesives
white glue
computer
CD/tape player
refrigerator
hotpot (for making soup, coffee or tea)
a few dishes and ample cheap flatwear
coffee cups
Again, you will be sharing a room, so don't arrive on campus with too many things your first semester. You usually won't need 2 of everything. So, you can decide with your roommate who will bring what for the second semester (things like a TV, VCR, DVD player).
Remember, you're there to study and get an education. Not feature your dorm room in Martha Stewart's Living magazine. Too much "stuff" can be a giant distraction (nevermind studying for next weeks final exams, let's all watch some DVDs!)
Another thing. It wouldn't hurt to buy some "nice clothes" to sort of stand-out from the other kids. If you want to look like a college clone, that's fine. But, things like an overcoat, some dress clothes and shoes, will make you look more professional. Colleges often have activities like student concerts and recitals, and it's expected that the young college students will attend them looking like young professional adults. And, you need not spend a fortune on such clothes. I totally missed the boat in my youth...I never discovered "thrift stores" until I was out in the working world. I wish I had known about them during my college daze. I would have been the coolest kid on kampus! with some of the neat stuff I've found at thrift stores (clothing and furnishings).
You will typically have to share a room the first year. I shared a room throughout my 4 years of college. It's not that bad, as you get to make decent friends this way and you learn how to cope with other people.
Having said the above, the average dorm room is probably as big as an average master bedroom in most homes. So, you only get to decorate about 50% of that...and the college dorms typically come with some standard furnishings, such as a bed, study desk, dresser and closet space.
I would recommend the following items:
pens
pencils
spiral notebooks (one for each subject)
hilighter markers (several colors)
handheld calculators (plural)
flashlights (plural)
desk lamp
alarm clock
clock radio (set two alarms on exam days)
toiletries
mattress cover (platic thing)
mattress pad
single bed clothes (sheets, blankets)
bed comforter for cold nights
small space heater
fan
packpack
briefcase
area rug
small bedside table
table lamp
some cool posters (colleges frown on you nailing pics to the wall, so posters can add a personal touch to your room and be applied with double-sided adhesive tape)
dictionary (small)
thesaurus
scissors
ruler
different tapes and adhesives
white glue
computer
CD/tape player
refrigerator
hotpot (for making soup, coffee or tea)
a few dishes and ample cheap flatwear
coffee cups
Again, you will be sharing a room, so don't arrive on campus with too many things your first semester. You usually won't need 2 of everything. So, you can decide with your roommate who will bring what for the second semester (things like a TV, VCR, DVD player).
Remember, you're there to study and get an education. Not feature your dorm room in Martha Stewart's Living magazine. Too much "stuff" can be a giant distraction (nevermind studying for next weeks final exams, let's all watch some DVDs!)
Another thing. It wouldn't hurt to buy some "nice clothes" to sort of stand-out from the other kids. If you want to look like a college clone, that's fine. But, things like an overcoat, some dress clothes and shoes, will make you look more professional. Colleges often have activities like student concerts and recitals, and it's expected that the young college students will attend them looking like young professional adults. And, you need not spend a fortune on such clothes. I totally missed the boat in my youth...I never discovered "thrift stores" until I was out in the working world. I wish I had known about them during my college daze. I would have been the coolest kid on kampus! with some of the neat stuff I've found at thrift stores (clothing and furnishings).
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